BDSM and Role-Play

As you get older, regular sex gets boring, no matter how beautiful your escort partner is, sometimes you want a new experience. Dominance and submission. Scary words? Depends on what they apply to. If a man's tyrannizing his intimidated spouse, then yes, it's a nightmare. But role-playing is another matter. It's all consensual. Nevertheless, many people still don't know what BDSM really is. They do not understand what it is or why it is needed. From ignorance of the subject, frightening myths arise. It's not all that scary.

And so in this article we're going to understand what BDSM is and the role-playing that you can do with Russian escorts:

Torture can be. But not real. Everything is done in a play format. The bottom gets high, even if he's in pain. He just likes it. The master is ecstatic too. And if everyone feels good, how can BDSM be bad?

Sado-maso is a voluntary practice. No one will make a submissive experience unbearable suffering if he does not want to. The rules of the game are negotiated in advance. The pain threshold of the slave is taken into account.

Let's say the partner playing the role of the bottom overestimated his strength and agreed to what he cannot endure. Will he have to go through all the circles of hell? No! Although the dominant dominates the slave in the BDSM game, the latter has an advantage. He can stop her at any time.

The stop word - as soon as the sub-missive says it, the dominant stops all actions aimed at inflicting pain and humiliation. If the bottom has been bound, he is released from the restraints. This does not mean the game is over. If you want to continue, you are welcome to do so. Only now the dominant already knows what not to do.

BDSM is always about sex.

Not necessarily. Relationships in which one partner dominates the other may not involve intimacy. Nevertheless, any techniques of this format cause erotic experiences. Psychological satisfaction is intertwined with sexual satisfaction. And it is insanely pleasurable.

Most S&M enthusiasts incorporate an element of intimacy into role-playing. This turns them on and makes the session that much more spicy. In addition, if the BDSM session does not end with an orgasm, you will have to get it elsewhere. Why go to all that trouble when you can combine erotic pain with eroticism?

The dominant is a sadist and a soul killer.

A dominant in S&M can be a sadist. But not the kind who grabs an innocent victim and revels in the suffering inflicted on her. Such people should either be treated in a psychiatric clinic or go to prison.

A dominant is a self-confident and adequate person with a balanced character. He knows how to control himself. He likes to humiliate. He likes to hurt. But it's important to him that he gets a kick out of it too. A master won't use techniques that make the slave feel bad. He wants them both to feel good.

The submissive is a slob and a coward

It may seem that a strong and strong-willed man would never try on the role of a bottom man. A slave has to humiliate himself in sex, endure pain, keep quiet and please his master. What normal man would do that? And what self-respecting woman would tolerate her partner's "abuse"?

In fact, it takes a lot of courage to enjoy being a subordinate in a role-playing game. A weak person will not withstand the pressure from a dominant - a stop word will be uttered in the first minutes of the session.

It is not uncommon for bottoms in BDSM to be those who have to be bossy and strict in real life. By playing domination and submission, they relax and place control in the hands of the master. The responsibility for the safety and flow of the game lies with the top. And the slave is fully immersed in excruciating bliss.

This traumatises the psyche

An adult intelligent person makes informed decisions. The stupid and fearful have no business in BDSM. A submissive knows what he's getting into. He wants to get a dose of adrenaline mixed with pain and humiliation. The dominant is not afraid to go crazy about what he's about to experience. He is in control and knows that his health and life are not in danger.

A problem can only appear if two inexperienced partners, knowing nothing about the subject, suddenly decide to play master and slave (or vice versa). And even in this case, if they discuss all the nuances of the session beforehand, neither of them's psyche will suffer.

No one can give an exact definition of BDSM. Is it painful, rough, harsh? Or gentle, sensual and reverent? In fact, sex with elements of domination and submission can be anything. Only the session participants decide how much pain and how much tenderness they get from passionate play.