Threesomes. 5 questions to discuss before you start practicing
Are you ready for the first three? Are you confident? With the wrong approach, fantasy is best left to the imagination. However, if you have pleasant partners, the "threesome" will be a new, exciting, mind-blowing sexual experience.
Before you begin to get naked, remember: there are things you absolutely must discuss with the participants. Whether you are a third person, part of a couple, or one of three people who have decided to try a sexual relationship with two similarly free people.
5 questions to ask before you start.
People who regularly practice threesomes understand that you should discuss details with the new "player" before you start practicing. This will save embarrassment and discomfort that is bound to arise from misunderstandings and ignorance of partners' desires.
It is difficult for newcomers to focus and understand exactly what should be clarified in a preliminary conversation. Of course, the list of questions will vary depending on the individual requirements of the person, but there are 5 classic questions that should be asked in any case.
- What kind of person do I (we, if a couple), want as a partner(s)?
Beyond the obvious list (attractive, respectful, communicative, etc.), what kind of person/people are you looking for? If you haven't resolved these questions at the start of dating, be sure to clarify when you meet. Do you want a bisexual couple, an experienced/inexperienced, a BDSM partner, or something else - let the participants know.
- When and where?
Decide if you want to meet at your home, a hotel, or, another participant's home. If meeting for the first time, it's fine that you don't want to invite strangers to your home. A good option is to split the cost of the hotel room. If you decide to meet at a party, or at a club, make sure all three of you are comfortable with the venue.
- What do I want to do exactly?
Anyone planning a threesome has at least a few specific ideas about what they would like to do. Discuss the details with everyone involved to better determine if your desires converge with those of the others. If you have no experience, but have a scenario based only on fantasy, remember: this is real life, and there's a chance that things won't go as planned.
- What don't I want to do?
When two or more people engage in sexual acts, it is possible to be subjected to an act that is uncomfortable for whatever reason. It is important to discuss restrictions at the beginning. This will also save embarrassing moments that require figuring things out in the midst of the action. Find out what limitations others have and tell them yours.
- What does the other person want?
While your fantasy may detail everything point by point, remember that each person involved is an equal participant. Make sure there is an opportunity for everyone to fulfill their secret desires and feel fulfilled. Ask what your partners like and further help them realize those preferences.
Don't forget that you are going to try to fulfill your fantasy with real people. Be considerate, respectful, and ready for anything. Have fun, but have patience. If your first "threesome" didn't go as well as you hoped - you can always try again, in our escort agency you have a great opportunity to take two Russian escorts and enjoy the evening in the company of beautiful Russian girls.